1 Peter 4:7
While some things in Scripture may seem less than clear, we can say that prayer certainly matters. Scripture is clear on the priority of prayer in the Christian life. Because of this emphasis that Scripture lays on prayer, we can consider prayer something that we can jump right into—in fact, that we must jump into—no preparation necessary. In today’s verse, however, the Apostle Peter provides us with a couple preparations that are essential for effective prayer.
How do we prepare for prayer? The first thing that Peter instructs us to do is to "be of sound judgment." The word has the idea of being able to think in a sound or sane manner, or to be of sound mind. To understand the meaning of this world from a colorful context, we could look at Matthew 5:15 or Luke 8:35. The story is a familiar one. A demon-possessed man thrashes about among the tombs without restraint. Jesus comes and drives out the demons from the man, sending them into a herd of pigs, which promptly run off a cliff and drown themselves. Afterwards, we find the man, as the text describes him, "clothed and in his right mind." The words, "in his right mind," are a translation of the word we have in our text, today. Peter tells us that in order to prepare for prayer we need to be in our right mind. That is, we need to be thinking rightly about God, ourselves, and everything else. To be more specific, the idea is that we need to view things from God’s perspective. That includes, among other things, that there be no disagreement on our part about our sin. If we are buddying up with sin, we’re in no condition to pray. It shouldn’t surprise us, then, that years before Peter picked up his pen, David wrote, "If I regard wickedness in my heart, the Lord will not hear" (Psalm 66:18). If we haven’t come to grips with God’s perspective on life, we’re just not ready to pray. This doesn’t mean that we have to have everything figured out theologically to pray, but simply that we need to have chosen mentally to take hold of God’s viewpoint on all things.
The second preparation for prayer that Peter provides is that we are to be of "sober spirit." If you’re like me, that phrase conjures up images of sour saints with long faces, who, on their best days, might be characterized as gloomy. That’s not the idea here. The word translated "be of sober spirit" literally has reference to being free from every form of mental and spiritual "drunkenness"—from excess, passion, rashness, and confusion. The word carries the idea of being well-balanced and self-controlled. Peter is basically saying that if we want to be able to pray effectively, we need to be free from mental chaos. Perhaps you have had the experience of trying to pray and finding yourself distracted by a multitude of things. Peter says to guard against this. To use the analogy of a horse, Peter tells us to take hold of the reins, and keep things at a steady trot. When our minds are tempted to race ahead to the thousand distractions that fill our lives, it is to us to set our minds on Christ and focus on Him and Him alone. It’s at that point that we have the clarity and composure to pray.
Prayer is a remarkable privilege. It is the right and responsibility of believers in Christ to approach the very throne of God and boldly to ask for that which we need. This right and responsibility, however, is to be exercised in the context of personal preparation. Being of sound judgment and sober spirit is the preparation we need. Next time we approach our holy God, let’s be sure we’re in the right frame of mind.

