He who trusts in his own heart is a fool,
But he who walks wisely will be delivered.
Proverbs 28:26
Memorial Day. I suppose that for as long as I live my thoughts about Memorial Day will always include a towering catalpa tree, mantled with white flowers. In southern Illinois where I spent my youth, catalpas always bloomed around that time of year, their snowy bunches cascading on the boughs like the slopes of a snowcapped mountain. Besides that gigantic specimen of flora that dominated our backyard, Memorial Day also brings to my mind recurring events that always happen right around that same time—graduations.
There is a certain line that emerges almost like a chorus in valedictory and salutatory speeches throughout our land. It’s remarkable how frequently this injunction pops up in these addresses from those at the top of their senior class. And it sounds so delightful: Believe in yourself.
That’s the language of self-help books and life coaches everywhere. It’s a marvelous call to hearken to the strengths of human nature and move forward with total confidence in them. “Believe in yourself,” beckons those who may be timid, or unnerved, or uncertain to chart a bold path with self as the wellspring of strength. To say there’s anything wrong with this golden axiom of our times would be tantamount to speaking badly about one’s mother, America, and apple pie, combined.
Allow me to be the goat and the killjoy pariah. “Believe in yourself,” is about the most rotten counsel out there. That phrase is printed on the sign at the entrance of the road to Hell.
We shouldn’t be surprised to find the world’s best advice running directly counter to what God tells us. Jesus said that the relationship between the world’s point of view and that of His followers could only be characterized as hatred (John 15:18-19). Scripture describes those who love Christ and adopt the world’s point of view in terms normally reserved for marital infidelity (James 4:4).
In today’s verse Solomon identifies the person who “trusts in his own heart” as a fool—a person on whom the bank of morality has foreclosed. An old scholar of Proverbs, C. H. Toy, helps us with this phrase when he writes that it means to “rely one one’s own mental resources.” It means to look to ourselves; to say with the poet of yesteryear, William Ernest Henley, “I am the master of my fate: I am the captain of my soul.”
The danger of such an approach to life is revealed in Solomon’s proverb for today when he says that the alternative to trusting in one’s own heart is to walk wisely and find deliverance as the result. Solomon implies that the result of the fool’s demonstration of his foolishness by trusting in his own heart is desperate peril without deliverance.
How do we walk wisely? Getting good counsel is the answer. And the counsel that we so desperately need is not that of the self-help books or the best psychologists. The counsel we need is God’s Word.
Apart from the Word of God and the God whose mind it reveals, we are left to founder in our own ignorance, doing our own thing, groping our way in the dark like the blind. Believing in ourselves is not the way to success—it’s the way to shipwreck a life for time and eternity. Deliverance comes only from trusting our Creator.
Don’t take the valedictorian’s words, no matter how wonderful they sound. Don’t believe in yourself—in your own misguided heart. Trust in someone bigger than yourself. Trust in Him.

