Truthful lips will be established forever,
But a lying tongue is only for a moment.
Proverbs 12:19
Ours might be called the era of falsehood and deception. It seems our society is as far removed as possible from the notion that "a person’s word is his bond." Seldom, if ever, do we take a statement at face value. Because of the rarity of people doing what they say, we require a contract for even the smallest transactions. We must add our signature to a sales slip to buy chewing gum with a credit card.
Why all these contracts and binding agreements? Our lives are filled with such measures because people are, by and large, not honest.
Solomon’s words in Proverbs 12:19 are a refreshing alternative to the falsehood with which we’re so often confronted. They are words of truth—God’s unalterable truth—that are fully trustworthy.
Notice what Solomon says. His first statement is an affirmation of the endurance of truthful lips. He uses lips as a figure of speech for what proceeds from the lips, namely, our words. He says that words that are characterized by truth last.
Why is this? One commentator sums it up well: "Truth, supported by facts, and having the approval of men and God, is permanent." And so it is. A person who speaks according to reality, not perverting the facts for his own ends, will find that what he says is established and lasts. People will learn that they can trust such a person. And if a person is trustworthy in some things, people will begin to recognize that she can be trusted in all things.
In contrast to the person whose lips speak truth, Solomon speaks of the one whose tongue lasts only for a moment. Again, Solomon uses a symbol to refer to the speech that comes by means of the tongue. The lying tongue doesn’t endure. We can almost see Solomon shaking his head as he considers the transitory tongue of a liar. This person’s words don’t last. Why does Solomon say this? Can’t a person maintain a facade for years? Surely this can happen. Solomon, however, puts his finger on the fact that as soon as the truth comes out, the lying tongue is no longer trusted. The web of falsehood quickly disintegrates in the flame of truth.
What does all this mean for you and me?
It may be that many of us would never tell a bald-faced lie, when put on the witness stand, or when questioned directly. Perhaps, however, falsehood has seeped into our lives far more insidiously. Let’s go to meddling, as is sometimes heard in church . . .
When you say, "I will call," do you? When you say, "I’ll be there," do you mean it? When you say, "I’ll do it," is it as good as done?
This may be painful for some of us to consider, or perhaps we pass such questions with a quick brush-off, thinking our off the cuff remarks don’t make any difference. Indeed, in our world, we’re inclined to expect such promises will not be kept. The reality, however, is that truthful speech begins in the little things. Jesus said, "He who is faithful in a very little thing is faithful also in much; and he who is unrighteous in a very little thing is unrighteous also in much" (Luke 16:10).
Of all the people in the world, the Christian must be known as a person of truth. If the world’s people cannot trust a Christian’s word in the small things, how will they trust a Christian in matters of eternity?
As followers of the One who said He was the Truth, let’s make all our words trustworthy in honor of Him.